{"id":6491,"date":"2025-01-30T18:53:23","date_gmt":"2025-01-30T18:53:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/?p=6491"},"modified":"2025-01-30T18:59:06","modified_gmt":"2025-01-30T18:59:06","slug":"when-do-we-stop-believing-in-people","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/blog\/when-do-we-stop-believing-in-people\/","title":{"rendered":"C\u00e2nd \u00eencet\u0103m s\u0103 mai credem \u00een oameni?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"6491\" class=\"elementor elementor-6491\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1aed4e0 e-flex e-con-boxed e-con e-parent\" data-id=\"1aed4e0\" data-element_type=\"container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"e-con-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9c36fb9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9c36fb9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ufdfd<\/p>\n<p>Ia-\u021bi un moment s\u0103-\u021bi imaginezi un bebelu\u0219 care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103. Este o scen\u0103 universal\u0103 \u2014 una care st\u00e2rne\u0219te speran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i bucurie \u00een oricine o prive\u0219te. Bebelu\u0219ul se \u00eempiedic\u0103, cade \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 din nou. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t timp dureaz\u0103, c\u00e2te c\u0103z\u0103turi are sau c\u00e2t de st\u00e2ngaci par pa\u0219ii. To\u021bi cei care privesc \u0219tiu, <em>f\u0103r\u0103 \u00eendoial\u0103<\/em>, c\u0103 acest copil va merge.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6493 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s.webp 1024w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-300x300.webp 300w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-150x150.webp 150w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-768x768.webp 768w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-12x12.webp 12w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-75x75.webp 75w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-129x129.webp 129w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-69x69.webp 69w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-600x600.webp 600w, https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/DALL\u00b7E-2025-01-30-19.57.47-An-emotional-and-inspirational-image-of-a-woman-standing-in-front-of-a-mirror.-In-the-reflection-she-sees-herself-as-a-baby-taking-its-first-steps-s-100x100.webp 100w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu \u00eei spune bebelu\u0219ului: \u201eEste prea t\u00e2rziu pentru tine.\u201d Nimeni nu spune: \u201ePoate c\u0103 mersul nu este pentru tine\u2014uit\u0103-te la toate momentele \u00een care ai e\u0219uat!\u201d Sau: \u201eDe ce \u00eencerci m\u0103car? Mul\u021bi al\u021bii au f\u0103cut-o deja\u2014care-i rostul ca \u0219i tu s\u0103 mergi?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu pune bebelu\u0219ul jos \u0219i nu-i spune: \u201eEste mai sigur dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i a\u0219ezat. Te vei r\u0103ni dac\u0103 continui. Exist\u0103 prea multe riscuri. Mai bine accept\u0103-\u021bi limitele.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Nu facem a\u0219a ceva. \u00cen schimb, aplaud\u0103m fiecare pas nesigur. S\u0103rb\u0103torim fiecare c\u0103dere ca dovad\u0103 c\u0103 se apropie tot mai mult. \u00cei \u021binem de m\u00e2n\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd devin suficient de stabili pentru a sta pe propriile picioare.<\/p>\n<p>Deci... de ce \u00eencet\u0103m s\u0103 mai credem \u00een oameni pe m\u0103sur\u0103 ce cresc? De ce nu le oferim aceea\u0219i \u00eencredere c\u00e2nd vine vorba despre visele lor?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd am \u00eenceput s\u0103 rostim: \u201ePoate e prea t\u00e2rziu pentru tine\u201d sau \u201eNu este scris pentru tine\u201d? C\u00e2nd am ajuns s\u0103 judec\u0103m parcursul altora cu o asemenea rapiditate, \u00een loc s\u0103-i \u00eencuraj\u0103m s\u0103-\u0219i continue drumul?<\/p>\n<p>Un adult care \u00ee\u0219i urm\u0103re\u0219te visul nu difer\u0103 de un bebelu\u0219 care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103. Se va \u00eempiedica. Va c\u0103dea. Poate c\u0103 evolu\u021bia lor va fi mai lent\u0103 dec\u00e2t a altora. Dar ei merit\u0103 acela\u0219i sprijin, acelea\u0219i \u00eencuraj\u0103ri, aceea\u0219i credin\u021b\u0103 neclintit\u0103 c\u0103\u2026 <em>pot<\/em> si <em>vor<\/em> reu\u0219i.<\/p>\n<p>Ca femei, purt\u0103m adesea povara a\u0219tept\u0103rilor \u2013 presiunea de a ne demonstra valoarea, teama de a fi judecate \u0219i povara de a alege calea sigur\u0103. C\u00e2te dintre noi au r\u0103mas la marginea propriilor vise pentru c\u0103 cineva ne-a spus c\u0103 este prea riscant? Sau, \u0219i mai r\u0103u, pentru c\u0103 am \u00eenceput s\u0103 ascult\u0103m acea voce din propria noastr\u0103 minte?<\/p>\n<p>Te invit s\u0103 reflectezi: c\u00e2nd ai \u00eencetat s\u0103 mai crezi \u00een tine? C\u00e2nd ai \u00eenceput s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pui la \u00eendoial\u0103 abilitatea de a face acei primii pa\u0219i nesiguri c\u0103tre via\u021ba pe care \u021bi-o dore\u0219ti?<\/p>\n<p>\u0218i, cel mai important, cum po\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eencepi din nou?<\/p>\n<p>Pentru c\u0103 adev\u0103rul este c\u0103 nu e niciodat\u0103 prea t\u00e2rziu s\u0103 te ridici, indiferent de c\u00e2te ori ai c\u0103zut. Lumea <em>are<\/em> nevoie de parcursul t\u0103u unic. \u0218i meri\u021bi cu prisosin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 parcurgi fiecare pas spre visul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Deci, hai s\u0103 avem \u00eencredere \u00een noi \u00een\u0219ine \u2013 \u0219i unii \u00een al\u021bii \u2013 la fel cum avem \u00eencredere \u00een bebelu\u0219ii care \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 mearg\u0103. 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Este o scen\u0103 universal\u0103 \u2013 una care st\u00e2rne\u0219te speran\u021b\u0103 \u0219i bucurie \u00een oricine o prive\u0219te. Bebelu\u0219ul se \u00eempiedic\u0103, cade \u0219i \u00eencearc\u0103 din nou. Nu conteaz\u0103 c\u00e2t timp dureaz\u0103, c\u00e2te c\u0103z\u0103turi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 sau c\u00e2t de st\u00e2ngaci par pa\u0219ii. To\u021bi cei care privesc \u0219tiu, f\u0103r\u0103 nicio \u00eendoial\u0103, c\u0103 [\u2026]<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"pmpro_default_level":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[39,80],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6491"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6491"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6491\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6496,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6491\/revisions\/6496"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6491"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6491"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/denisa-erten.com\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6491"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}